We are living in an unprecedented time of history. COVID-19 is a silent, insidious enemy that lurks around every corner: hiding on grocery bags, on our mail and our groceries, in the cough of the person behind us in line at Kroger, on the park bench where we love to sit after our social-distancing walk with a friend. The worst thing is, we are not even sure how long this enemy will stalk us. When will we recognize our lives again? What will a “new normal” look like?
How do we, as parents of children with disabilities, not only face but confront the fear all around us? How do we resist the enemy who comes to “kill, steal and destroy” (John 10:10). We know that Jesus comes that we “may have life, and have it to the full” (John 10:10). So, how do we live this full life in the face of fear? How do we testify to the power and glory and love of God to those around us?
Here are 10 scriptural weapons we can use to defeat the enemy. We can, and must, teach at least some of them to our children, who are dealing with their own heightened anxiety.
1. Dress yourself in the armor of God every day. “Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand.” The armor of God consists of the belt of truth, the breastplate of righteousness, the shoes of peace, the shield of faith, the helmet of salvation and the sword of the Spirit (Ephesians 6:10-18). Dress yourself in this armor every day as you put on your worldly clothes! Children love this scripture! Encourage creative games of dress-up.
2. Wield the sword of the Spirit, which is the Word of God (Ephesians 6:17) Go on the offensive! The enemy flees when we speak the Word of God to his face. Have scriptures ready to speak out loud when you begin to feel discouraged, fearful, or wanting to give up! Help your child choose a short scripture to memorize and use when anxiety wells up. Your child might have fun vanquishing the enemy as he/she recites a favorite scripture while wielding a play sword.
3. Praise the Lord! “I called to the Lord, who is worthy of praise, and I have been saved from my enemies. (Psalm 18:3). The enemy simply cannot stand in the face of our praises. God is enthroned in the praises of His people. When we are praising Him, He is there with us. Our children, no matter their disability, are naturals at praise. Make praise and worship a part of your daily family time and watch the enemies of discouragement and fear fade away.